If you are in an abusive relationship, you feel you can not get away from your abuser.
You may need to get a retraining order if your abuser keeps trying to get you back in his control. As for an example, he knew my weakness that I would go back if he picked up my youngest kid from a school. I had told them that if it happened, I would not turn back to him if he took my youngest one away from me. That's how I got my R.O. Getting a restraining order placed on your abuser this can make staying away from them much easier. It's also for peace on yourself. If you don't have a R.O. , you need to check it out ( the link I give). You need to have your
own healthy journey to get a complete recovery. Stay strong. Remember you do NOT deserve any kind of abuse in your life if your abuser has not changed.
Here is the link.
http://www.healthguidance.org/entry/12794/1/How-to-Stay-Away-From-an-Emotional-Abuser.html
http://www.healthguidance.org/entry/12794/1/How-to-Stay-Away-From-an-Emotional-Abuser.html