Saturday, March 28, 2009
Don't Judge Them Right Away!
For the vloggers and commenters under several vlogs, having a hot debate on Audism and AFA
Don’t Judge Them Right Away!
Don’t look at or assume people what they’re up to.
Don’t judge on what they do; you could be wrong.
Don’t assume what their action is about.
Don’t say if we can't read their minds.
Do you really know if they’re bad or good?
Don’t point at them, don’t look at them.
So, don’t judge them too quickly.
Set a good conservation from a fresh start.
See what people say or try to express in a word.
See, learn, conceive, perceive without judging them.
Don’t hate or judge like that when you’re down the path.
Here I am...It's OK to ask some questions, but it's not
OK to refuse to share and educate in a gentle way. A healthy
and on-going conversation from a fresh start is what we need.
We really need to carry that kind of conversation further and continue pushing the healthy dialogue until everyone's able to be on the same page.
Another thing we need to change:
Don't say, "you have a wrong attitude"
Say, " I'm not comfortable with that kind of attitude"
It's just an example. I thought we could give it a try
and start to practice on saying in a healthy way without judging
them right away.
Just a tip. I hope it would be helpful.